Being Selective Isn't Picky — It's Power
The book that started it. The podcast that will keep it relevant. The community that will hold you accountable.
About the Book
This book is me, unfiltered. Not a guide, not a rulebook, just my journeys poured out honestly so that whoever picks this up can see themselves in my story. I am not here to tell you what to do. I am here to be real, be relatable, and remind you that you are not alone in what you are going through.
Coming Soon
Podcast Game
Four boxes. One challenge. Each guest picks one — and whatever is inside, they have to keep it real. No skipping. No passing. Just truth.
Coming soon to Spotify, Apple Podcasts & YouTube — Single & Selective Podcast
Join the Movement
Upcoming
An evening of networking, good energy, and genuine connections. Singles & entrepreneurs welcome.
Meet Katrina, get your copy signed, and connect with fellow readers and community members.
Celebrate the official launch of the Single & Selective Podcast with the full cast, live games, and giveaways.
Brunch + business + community. Connect with driven entrepreneurs in a relaxed, positive setting.
Official Store
Paperback
$14.99
Hardcover
$19.99
Black Tee
$25.00
Red Tee
$25.00
Pay securely via PayPal — Singleandselective@gmail.com
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Know someone who needs this? Nominate them.
This is not a giveaway — it's a surprise blessing. If you have a friend who is single, going through something, or just deserves to be seen and celebrated, nominate them. Tell us a little about them and why you feel they need this. We will take care of the rest. Our team will personally show up with a curated bag just for them — made for a man or a woman — because everybody deserves to feel chosen.
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Your friend will not be notified until we are ready to pop up. Keep it a surprise!
May 2, 2026
Over 20 people came out to celebrate, connect, and grab their signed copies. This is what community looks like.
Were you there? Tag us on Instagram @Single&Selective
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From hotel lobbies to driveways — the book is showing up everywhere. Thank you to every single reader.
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Praise
This book hit different. Katrina wrote what so many of us have lived but never had the courage to say out loud. I finished it in one sitting and cried twice.
"Red Flags I Painted Green" is the most honest thing I've ever read about a relationship. Every woman in her twenties needs this on her nightstand.
Katrina doesn't just tell her story — she gives you permission to tell yours. Brave, raw, and deeply empowering.
Get the Book
Being Selective Isn't Picky — It's Power
Available now in paperback and digital formats wherever books are sold.